I work as a sub at a local High School. I guess I am having a problem understanding exactly what the problem is. I don't think there is anything unethical happening, and I think if this women is uncomfortable staying late, she shouldn't stay late. I also think that if she is uncomfortable taking money from the teacher, than she shouldn't take the money. Its a simple as telling the teacher how she feels. If it were me, I wouldn't stay late, and I wouldn't take pay from the teacher, but thats just my opinion.....as for how the other paras felt in regards to this situation, I wouldn't give it a passing thought, because it shouldn't be any of their concern...