I think when my Aunts say something they are really saying "you will have a better life if you lose weight. I have been huge my whole life it has caused me nothing but social and health problems I want better for you" Trouble is the words they use are "you are a big fat pig you eat too much you need to go on a diet you have a pretty face if you weren't so fat you really don't need another cookie you are so much fatter than the others"
Really once we were visiting some relatives that we only saw once a year I was about 6 or 7 the lady (my great Aunt) was offering more cookies when she got to me she turned quickly with the plate and said "you don't need another one you are so much fatter than your sisters" When I look back I was normal and not much bigger than my sisters.
What those people don't realize is that they birthed and nurtured eating disorders in us instead of making us thin and healthy.

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