truble2301 I must start by saying you are by far the smartest women on the boards, you totally speaks the truth and in honest and fair in all posts. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your post. I also admit that the rules should apply to all, and that while we as women will never totally agree with all, no bashing or starting a post directly againist me or anyone else should ever be allowed.I know I am not always right and neither is anyone else.However for me I am constantly being picked on for my grammar, my usage of the word peace and for mentioning my brother Sonny too much. Why does this bother people so much I cannot understand. I do not want to make this post about me, but just one more thing, it is truly sad to anyone here to make fun or even mention over and over again that I use xanax for panic attacks, that is not funny. Ok I am ending here. Again once Again Truble2310 thanks so much for your words of wisdom and the speaking the truth, your a wonderful caring person as I know there are many more here. Peace and stay safe in this holiday season. Catherine