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Old 12-19-2008, 08:26 AM
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Originally Posted by Mallerie View Post
Can I say I postive repped you mentally about 100 times for this?

I've never understood why some people don't understand that always ignoring negative behavior is nothing more than enabling it.

You feel ignoring something is enabling it, but being cruel, making fun, etc makes it better, HELPS negative behavior???? (For what it's worth, I don't see ilovelucy's behavior as negative, using Mallerie's description)

I tried to post last night before I went to bed, even though I was logged on, it wouldn't let me reply, but I am glad to read the responses posted since then, and I am thankful that cj has apologized and said she'd try to do better. We could and can all do better.