No, I don't think being cruel, making fun, etc. helps negative behavior. I never said anywhere that I did or even imply it.

How come you don't mention the kind comments, nice suggestions, etc, that have been given? Since you didn't ask, I'll tell you I do believe in those.

"Ignoring" isn't ALWAYS the best track to follow. It can't always be the only option. Why ever ban anyone then, right? Just make everyone put a person on ignore. I would imagine as grown ups, we've all been in a situation where the (offliine) "ignore" feature doesn't work. Hell, I've seen discussions here about personal situations where it doesn't work. I guess that was the basic point I was trying to make. It doesn't always work.

I'm not so much on a "side" but, I've seen both sides act ridiculous, be cruel and make fun. When a person isn't so involved, it's a lot easier to see the "middle".