wow- what a strong woman.

As long as the children are loved and all well taken care of what else matters?

As far as the cesarean discussion. After having three my mother's doctors did not tell her to stop having children- to the contrary he asked if she was going to try again for a boy.

However, recently she had a full hysterectomy and there was a lot of discussion and concern about how to make the incision. The doctor he felt it was dangerous to cut again in the same spot. Ultimately they did it- but cut off the entire previous scar to promote healing.

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"Life is short. Break the rules. Forgive quickly. Kiss slowly. Love truly. Laugh uncontrollably and never regret anything that made you smile. Life may not be the party we hoped for but while we're here we should dance."

Peace.