I guess ladies I am on the other side of fence with this. I have a dh who is a total neat freak and I guess that would be the only thing that gets to me sometimes.Like this morning he left me a note it read Cat.... open all windows and spray more lysol all around.I am truly not complaining cause I would rather have a clean dh then one who I would have to do all the housework and cleaning up after. He literally does more cleaning then me, which I have to admit I am so used to it now that I could never live in a messy house, it truly makes me nervous, however with my dh there are times I say Tommy that can wait I can get to it in a bit. However like nightowlrn said its been 24 wonderful years and I could never imagine my life without him.On a personal note he also snores something horrible so during the nite I constantly touch him and try to move him and it works for awhile..... lol.. Peace. Catherine