so it's 2 am and I've been up twice with my mom already and can't go back tosleep; not uncommon. we were up 3-5 times a night the first 6 weeks she was here; she does this probalby 4 times a week now being up frequently versus 7 at the beginning; I just had a thought that maybe I will call my brother at night each time my mom gets up; yeah i'm irritated; I'm going to be tird in the morning for this meeting; it culd get ugly; I will really try to be "kind"