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Old 03-23-2009, 07:35 PM
ILUVLUCY420 ILUVLUCY420 is offline
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wowitsdark sadly in todays standards and times, many many children are judged by the clothes they wear. Whether the children come from a so called rich family who can well afford their children all the brand labels. Or on the other side of the fence, children whose parents cannot afford brand labels. Personally from gone through 2 teenagers and one my youngest who will be 17 come May, girls are the worst and are mostly judged by their clothing. Having raised our children to know the value of a dollar and also because we are liberal and also because all my children dress hippy and old style 60 and 70 style clothing it is not a problem for them. Also because they are so used to Mom and Dad shopping with our favorite boyfriend here Mr. Clarence aka Mr. Clearance lol, they have learned to shop for the sale items. Now they all love to get alot of their clothing from the the Goodwill store and love to hunt for bargains. So again while it may not be a tie and dress shirt, underneath is basically 3 really good kids. Whom me and my husband hope are sincerely judged for inside and not outside. Again if you love uniforms and are happy so be no problem, life is about personal choices. Heck at this point my husband is 100 percent rock and roll and has been a rebel all his life, so easy going hardly hardly ever ever gets dressed up. Jeans and tee-shirts, goatee, likes longer hair. But he has been working for his family business for 28 years now. Which is building homes and someday my son will follow in his steps. For those who have seen pics of my ds Tommy he does have extremely long hair, does have 2 piercings and 2 tattoo's but again those are all on the outside. What sure be more important in the inside. Outside you could see a very professional man dressed to the T shirt and tie so well groomed and inside could be just a jerk.Of course that is not for all, there are many well groomed men who are so nice and wonderful and the same goes for the so called sloppy dress who are jerks as well. Again it is all about personal choice and to each his own.. Peace. Catherine
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