Allinaugust this particular lady I am talking about again, her choice to totally get drunk everynite if you want too. However again she has 2 small little girls, I have thought and said to my dh who thinks facebook is waste btw. Anyway we have discussed this and fear what if one day or night one of her little girls get sick real sick. What if they have to drive to an emergency room, they are totally drunk, her , my sister in laws brother and all their friends. How terribly dangerous and then having to walk into an emergency room so drunk and make important decisions with all the questions and papers you could fill out.... Again I am tempted even my sister in law knows this and has admitted that this particular lady should not be righting all this on facebook for so many people to see. I always say life is about choices, but not at the risk of my children or innocent lives if god forbid they get behind the wheel of a vehicle. Which btw she does write going out for an extremely late pick=up need more beer.. Crazy I know.. Agreed great post. Peace. Catherine