I have no problem with it. In fact, I think many bad marriages could be prevented if it happened more. You can love someone with all your heart but if you can't stand how a person lives...it's not going to work at all. If you aren't sexually compatible, it's going to be a rough road ahead. Living together gives you a chance to see if you should get married. I personally didn't do it but only because it would have been HIGHLY frowned upon by my parents, grandparents and my now in-laws. Their opinions meant something to us. So, we did some pre-marriage counciling (everyone should do it) and spent lots of time together and with both families and then got married 8 months after our first date

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