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Originally Posted by Ambrianna  So you think that this woman can raise these babies on her own, with NO assistance, like a normal everyday person should?
It's so not about judging at this point, it's about right and wrong for those babies and common damn sense! You can't possibly believe that a woman has 14 kids, no real job, no husband, lives with Mommy and Daddy, had them all IVF because "she WANTS", won't marry the father - has an ounce of common sense? You really think a person with this kind of mentality will raise 14 decent human beings? Her judgments are obviously NOT intelligent and well though out - and she brings innocent lives into her bad decisions. Nice, huh?
Yes, I believe at SOME point someone has to step in and do what's best for the children.
If I'm correct in my thinking, programs like Welfare were set up to HELP in times of need. Now women pump out children just to GET more welfare. Why is that not a problem? Sure seems like it is to me.
This Octomom chick is a hot mess and she brought 14 children into her hot mess. Now it's up to the rest of the country to foot the bill? Why is that thinking okay for some people? She did this 100% on purpose, holds out her hands, waiting for someone to fill 'em up. And yes, I fully understand there are MANY circumstances where a person should have assistance. This is NOT one of them.
Call me anything you want, I do NOT understand pumping out children like your body is a factory just because you "WANT". "I want I want I want" is the great American cry anymore, what does it matter if a person can't handle it? Stick out those hands, someone will fill 'em up for you, just make sure you do what you WANT.
kvmj, what do YOU think should happen? Do you think that her community and/or country should support her and her children now? Do you think it's fine and dandy she did what she did? What if she has MORE children? Who do you think should pay for those? Do you think she should EVER have to face consequences for her actions, or just hand her millions of dollars? |
I am not God. It is not up to me to judge people. I too disapprove of these large families as they are very bad for the planet. Michelle Dugger would tell you that her body is a factory for pumping ore Duggers into the world. Her daughter in law would say the same.
Rich people abuse their kids. Middle class people abuse their kids. Poor people abuse their kids. Ms. Suleman has not abused any of her kids to my knowledge. She has taken horrible advantage of her parents.
And sometimes, people who rely on public assistance make wonderful parents.
It would be great if everyone in the country had the opportunity to earn a living wage, But they don't. Will I begrudge her the 2 years that she would have been able to receive public assistance? Nope.
You would take the Duugger and Gosseling children away from each other and their parents?