Well I did have one and I believe I discussed the whole issue with you allinaugust or Hambirg its been awhile. In short my son Tommy was born with several heart defects so were my 3 other nephews, all the girls were fine and healthy. Into my first trimester they determined my unborn child a boy had much severe heart defects and he would not live . He would have been my 4th child. So to answer you I would never ever ever in a million years judge...Peace. Catherine