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Originally Posted by allinaugust Yes, I agree, and it is stuff like this that has seriously cut down my "gift giving" list. We stopped sending b'days gifts to many of the nieces and nephews since they were clearly too busy to acknowledge even receiving it, how ever could they find the time to enjoy it?? So, I saved them some time and stopped sending anything.
I hope this is not a sign of how the society is turning. |
I've thought about stopping it too. I have one set of great nephews who never ever acknowledge the money I send in a card for their birthday. I have another niece and nephew who always call me to thank me.
What I'm wondering, though, when the kids are little (say 7 and 8), is it their fault or their parents' fault for not acknowledging a gift? This then leads to a teen or graduate not acknowledging a gift because they haven't been taught. How do you know when to stop giving gifts when you know they'e not going to be acknowledged. I send cash so I would at least like to know that they've received the money.