I totally feel your pain. I have been working two jobs for a while now. Thankfully, after a LOT of fussing, yelling, tears, and complaining, DH and our boys have finally stepped-up to the plate. They were just spoiled for so many years, with me being a SAHM. Things finally came to a head one day in our household, and I, being totally exhausted, lost my sh*t w/ DH. I am glad that happened. For the first time in a long time, I feel like we're at a 50/50 relationship regarding the kids, the bills getting paid, and the household work, instead of it being 95/5. While I am so glad I was able to stay home with them all these years, I just wonder how things would have played out differently, had I found a way to work outside the home. Crack that whip girl! Don't hire a cleaning lady.