Exactly. This guy KNOWS how many other people have been "caught" -- what would make him believe that HE wouldn't be caught???

What is it with men who are willing to ruin their lives for sex??? What is it about sex that would make a man hurt his wife, kids, family, friends, constituents, colleagues, etc. etc.? Is the sex really worth it?

I don't understand the utter, sheer selfishness of it