This is an unfortunate situation that in my opinion has lots of red flags. I can't offer you anything but that. I have always followed my intuition and especially in this situation, if it feels bad, it is. I think that I would be careful how I approached your husband. You do not want to make this couple of friends "the prize". In watching some of my friends husbands and in one case, the wife go through a mid life event, they sort of revert to a parent/teen situation where it becomes rebellious and a "you can't control me" type of thing. You don't want to control who he sees and what he does, you just want him to want to see and be with you and people who both of you feel comfortable with. Is that right?

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