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Originally Posted by annadrose  Are they tweekers? |
I was trying to figure out how to ask this very question but didn't know how. It sounds like it could be related to drugs or drink. People change for all kinds of reasons and sometimes the reason is the most simple one but the one we are certain could never be the real reason. KWIM?
I haveheard of spouses who suddenly change and it is because they have been introduced to drugs of some kind and that will certainly change your personality and how trustworthy you are. I don't think I have ever met an honest drugger. But as another idiot poster pointed out, I have lived a sheltered life. (read
ne where I am not close minded or a bigot).
OP, bless your heart. These people sound awful. But remember that your husband is a big boy and he is making his own choices. Don't blame the friends for what he is doing. They may be the influence but in my opinion, I couldn't let my kids get away with things and blame their friends when they knew right from wrong so my husband should follow the same guidelines. He is making terrible choices, it sounds like. Stand up for your way of living and draw the line as to what you will stand for. Be very clear about it and have a plan for if that line gets crossed.
Hopefully, it is how your husband says it is. They are just nice weird people. If that is the case, maybe you can separate them from your husband by making him so busy he doesn't have time for them any more.