I do not think it is drugs.. The dh is ( or make that * was* ) a jailer at the Orlando , FL municipal jail ( he had Casey Anthony as one of his charges )..This past Monday he started a new job...left the jail job..more pay, but the state job ( jail ) was very good with benefits.. I would think he would not want to leave the state job offering excellent benefits. He was tested for drugs often, and is ex-military on top of that..

My dh has a secret clearance for his job and I know ( or I should HOPE!) he knows not to get caught with drugs.

no, I really do not think drugs...I think adult ADHD on the wife's part..I have met her and she had my head spinning by the end of the meeting ( lunch )..just talked a mile a minute. The dh did not say a word...

Yes, my dh does tell me about this "friendship"..he is open about " all the fun they have" ..many times, he would get home from work, change into his "play clothes"..and run to their house..then they would either watch tv or flock to stores together..I would be speaking to him on his cell..it would be 10:30 at night..and they'd be walking into a Target. I would remind him he has work the next day and it is late, etc.

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