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Originally Posted by cubmom2  FTR, I have never done anything but DOTE on my dh, for 23 years..he always came home to a home cooked meal, laundry, love, attention. I have never lied to him, cheated on him, stepped out on him, etc. |
This right here gets me. I was the very same way with my EX. At the age of 33 he had a mid-life crisis. We split and now he is living with 2 bisexual women.
I doted, cooked for him, picked up after him, washed his crusty drawers... everything!! And he was unhappy with it!
I have a male friend who told me, that I was probably too good to my ex. That my ex probably took me for granted and got tired of everything being "perfect" OR. that he felt like I was more of a mother to him than a partner. Since I did all that stuff for him. Which makes total sense to me now.
Try acting less like a mom and more like a partner. See what happens.