That's called a personal attack, Cubmom2 and against board rules but that's never stopped you before.

Big surprise that your husband prefers to spend his time elsewhere. FYI, the reason he keeps siding with other people over you is because you're the one who's wrong and he likes them better than you. He's spending his time with them because their company is an improvement over yours! But whose isn't? Your husband lies to you because he wants you to shut up and leave him alone. Since you don't even live with him, how is it your business anyway?

I'm sure that the reason these people were rude to you is that you were rude to them first - like you were to me. People like you never understand that you cause your own problems and always blame someone else for them. Your husband isn't having a mid life crisis - he's just sick of you and anybody's company looks good to him now. I can see why!