Aw cubmom2 I am so sorry to hear about all your personal problems with your dh and his mid life crisis.. From what I have read what you wrote about these friends for me personally the suituation does not seem right nor okay. The best advice I can offer you hon is that you need to talk more to your husband and perhaps spend more time once you get to florida and perhaps some professional help. One thing is for sure this is serious and you need to seriously sit down and have some long discussions with your dh. I sincerely wish you all the best and I also sincerely wish for and your dh that things work out and find out what the problems are to resolve them. Kindly keep us posted we are here for you. Peace. Catherine