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Originally Posted by Ambrianna People just want to have something to SAY, it doesn't matter if it's true or not. None of us will ever know if she was MADE to speak, unless she herself comes out and says it
She was brave and when her grief becomes more manageable for her, she'll probably always be happy she spoke with her heart at her Daddy's memorial. |
Bless her heart, she is braver than me! When my father died, I was too grief sticken to speak at his memorial. (We'd had him cremated, so there was no burial). I told mom I would say the euology, but then I couldn't do it, and it forced my poor mom to have to. I have no brothers or sisters. Not speaking like that has tormented me for the last 14 years. Making mom do it, it is still hurting me that I wimped out and made my poor mom have to speak like that. I feel so ashamed. I still can't get over how I flaked out at the last minute. All these years, and it still hurts me. So bless Paris' heart, my gosh, what a brave little 11 year old girl!! What a beautiful little girl.......................
And I thought Rev. Al looked good! I didn't know he'd had any bypass surgery. Was he ever fat?? I thought he gave a nice speech this time. The whole thing was really nice, for an even that hardly had any time to be planned. I wonder what the family is doing today---are they finally able to sit back and relax some now? I feel so bad for them.