I don't condone affairs, either, for any reason. I don't care what the circumstances were. As Dr. Phil says, you end one relationship before you start another. Period. It does not matter if they were having marital problems or not. He had not ended the marriage. I'm assuming he had told the mistress that he would not leave his wife for her, otherwise why would she have killed him? They're both scum, IMO.

Lisa

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