Sorry, but I can't ever condone an affair. Call that judgmental if you must. I've seen them ruin the lives of way too many children. That man was a father and he had no business being anywhere with any twenty year old 'thing' while he had four young children to care for.

Are you aware that he was riding with the girlfriend/murderer last week while she was impaired? While officers were making her 'walk the line' he got out of the car and into a cab and just left her alone to be arrested? Why was he even letting her drive him around in that condition?

I can understand people being unhappy with the state of their marriage, but cheating is never the answer, and that's exactly what he was doing.

I don't know if you were a fan of his or why you find it so easy to defend his obviously classless behavior, but it's pretty evident that both of them were behaving badly and indefensibly.