When my first husband and I separated after 23 years of marriage, I did have an affair, we were not legally separated, but we were living apart. After our divorce, I had a relationship with a married man. THAT I feel worse about than anything. It was totally against anything I had ever been taught, and I know that it was wrong. Would I cheat on my husband now? No way...no how. All of that causes way too much pain for everyone. The opportunities have been there (as I'm sure they are with everyone), but I have no desire. I've made some stupid mistakes in the past, but I've been given a second chance with a wonderful man. I have way too much to lose. And, now (finally), like icansavedaily said, "I have have more self worth than that."

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