First of all I am saying that we do not know the nature of his relationship with his wife and we should not judge others.
My EXH and I separated and had nothing filed in the courts yet. He met and moved in with someone else prior to me filing. Does that mean he had an affair? Technically yes, however we were separated.
You never know what the situation was.

And marilynk, why bring up hitting wives? We are talking about sleeping with someone other then your wife.

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