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Originally Posted by kathytheshopper  I love what you wrote here. I wonder why it doesn't apply to other issues as well.... |
Kathy,
I think that in theory we all want the same things in life--we just differ in how best to go about those things.
Also, a lot of issues that I have had with you and/or your postings is the perceived "tone" of what you are saying. I try really hard to look past HOW you're saying something to get to the WHAT you are saying--sometimes I fail, and I engage in arguing with you. And arguing doesn't really accomplish anything--except getting everyone all worked up.
FWIW--I don't think you are a bad person, just misguided
(just kidding). I really don't think you're bad. I do think that we are all guilty of getting defensive and arguing our position--even when we may be wrong.