Originally Posted by xpcandy

When people have OPEN relationships(marriages or otherwise) it is a relationship that is agreed upon by both parties...not just when one person decides they want to screw around and decide it's OK because they want it that way while the other person is clueless and stays in the relationship thinking that the mate is being faithful. That is NOT what an OPEN relationship means! I realize that's what YOU think it means but it's NOT!