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Old 07-12-2009, 06:25 PM
tammyleeb tammyleeb is offline
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Originally Posted by marilynk View Post
I don't "know" him well enough to "like" him....

He's an ok actor. Assuming that he did, in fact cheat on his wife, he is just like any other person who had/has an affair---wrong in their actions.

Wrong is wrong on some things. There is no justification for cheating. You either stick to the vows you took (implied or actually spoke) or you get out before creating another intimate relationship.

Some things, like cheating or spousal abuse or child abuse, can not be justified. Regardless of whether you or I know the "situation"---either you roger up to your responsibilities, or you don't.
I don't know about the whole justification thing. I mentioned in the thread about affairs that I think sometimes the *vows* are looked at very differently by some people. Often...being unfaithful seems to be the only part of the marriage vows that anyone seems interested in. Many of us are guilty of breaking some of the other vows we say when we get married, yet the one that always seems to get people bent out of shape is the vow made about being faithful.
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