Wowitsdark I totally agree you 100 percent they are both to blame and both at fault.I am not saying the way Kate treated him on the show was okay it was not.However again it is reality t.v. so who really knows what is real and what is fake. All I know at this point the main focus should be first and foremost their 8 children. Then of course they have to work on their personal relationship as it applies to the family they created. Honestly they have been on so many magazine front covers enough is enough they need to get out of the spotlight and focus on their family. Peace. Catherine