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Originally Posted by dannic  "Correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't you defend a spouses right to cheat in a thread not too long ago? And didn't it come out that when you hooked up w/ your current signficant other he was married? Perhaps the whole Jon and Kate thing is a bit too close to your home door. I don't know...."
I stated if they were apart and divorce was filed for then YES I THOUGHT IT WAS OK TO MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. Divorces can and do drag on for literally years. Do you think that they should still remain faithful to the spouse they are divorcing for years? No one should be expected to do that. Kate would be just the same type of person to hold on for years trying to screw everyone.
And you are wrong agin because I didnt hook up with my current S/O as you put it... I became friends with a man who was married, who chose to end his marriage and attempt to find happiness somewhere else. And he is now my husband... Not S/O.
"What you see on "reality" TV is NOT REAL! It's edited for drama and to bring in ratings. " TOUCHE... How do you know that what you are seeing about him is true?? |
touchy, touchy, touchy!
I don't know what I see about him is true---I've always said that it takes 2 to make a marriage and it takes 2 to dissolve a marriage (generally speaking there are exceptions). Thus I really think both have behaved badly. Apparently Kate either had the good sense or good handlers to not be seen out w/ young stud muffins. Jon apparently doesn't. Period.
You also stated that everyone was jumping on poor downtrodden Jon. About a month ago, everyone was jumping on bitchy, catty Kate...So, I don't buy that he's a victim.
The only ones who are victims are the 8 children involved.
I think you feel defensive about this because you see some of your own situation. Not a big deal--we all are more sensitive to issues that we have personal experience with. Perhaps you have some issues that you need to deal with, perhaps not. And before you even go there---I know I have issues. I deal with them every day. I work on them and I try not to jump to conclusions based on surface information.