We know that Jon has a girlfriend and there were pictures of them together before Kate filed for divorce. How do we know there is anything more between her and her bodyguard? There could be but who knows. I have probably watched all the shows and Kate can be loud and bossy but I would be to with 8 small kids. It always looked like it was like good cop bad cop. Jon was the good cop and Kate was the bad cop. The bad cop always looks like the bad one.