Well jeeplady I can deeply tell you I was extremely moved by your last statement, that you would not get married until everyone can legally be married. Hon I am right there with you 100 percent, those are my personal views and I strongly believe everyone deserves the right to be legally married. Of course marriage is not for everyone, the bottom line hon is life is way too short and whatever makes your life easier and most of all happy, that is all truly what really matters. Peace and thanks again for your answer. Peace. Catherine