Oh my goodness................this situation sounds very similar to what we have been through. weird.

I can tell you, after spending time with a child psychologist, that some of the behavior of the 18 month old will be due to some attachment disorders. The older sibling to Faith really deals with some issues that Faith doesn't. Raising this child is going to be difficult and my suggestion is talking to professionals that can help. It does sound like at this point you are doing all the right things, and the advice here is the same as what I would give.

Oh my gracious, I would love to talk to you. Please read my thread "Faith.."

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Melissa