A bit off topic but in reading all the responses to Marilynk and her thread I feel a warm feeling that it is nice to know that while most of us in the past myself always included did not agree on many subjects, that we can put it behind us and come together as a small community here on the cafe and support a member when they are going through a rough time in their personal life. Again Marilynk you are doing the best for all concerned and again I sincerely wish the best outcome of this sad suituation. Peace. Catherine