Thread: I am not ok..
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Old 08-26-2009, 02:36 AM
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Oh Melissa, I truly can't imagine what you are going thru. Like another poster said, do you feel that the bio is ok now, does she have a stable environment? If not, could you have social services or someone check in on the situation? Surely she is being monitored?

I don't really remember all the details, but do you get along with the bio? Do you think she might come to her senses and say "Wait, these people can offer my child a better life than I can"? Don't give up, she may wake up and realize that she's in way over her head.

I'm a mother of a 3 year old, and it is truly 24/7 with no pitstops. It may very well be more than she can handle. Hang in there, get on your knees and pray for God to step in and put that baby where she needs to be. Make sure she is being followed up on.

Try and talk with bio, see how she feels when her baby is begging for yall. Maybe more visits? Is she reasonable??

I feel so horrible for you, like I said, I just can't imagine what you are going thru.

Hugs to you and Faith!! Keep us posted!!
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