Thanks ladies so much for the advice so far, I have like I said thought of going back on birth control but again I worry about my other medications I take. As far as a elective operation I dearly worry about that also and honestly would only go that path with last options to me surgery is always risky but I do know there are options. I have also thought about doing something naturally with vitamins or supplements from my vitamin store .On off topic yes Afurrything that guy you have as your avatar is a hottie, but my hottie will always be the one and only Gary Oldman... Peace. Catherine