Omg KellyJef we agree on something, what you just wrote is exactly what I am trying to say, there is no way one mom who do the everyday normal routine of being a mom, cooking breakfest, getting them up, getting them washed and dressed, teach them their lessons, check their homework, cook, clean, laundry, naptimes, making sure they are all safe, on and on no way no how, without the help of her elder children. I guess for me sadly who sometimes wishes I could be a kid again, because sadly your only a child once and once you become an adult, its over and you get married and have children the carefree days are over, again it is their business, but sorry where will it end and does anyone here realize if any of her children did any outside activity which to my knowledge they do not.How could one mom be there for all the practices and games and all those activities and driving. Everything they do is in the house, which is not a bad thing per say, but not one boy ever wanted to play on a baseball team or play football. Not one girl wanted to be in girlscouts or dancing or art. On that part I find extremely sad. I am not saying that in todays standards some children are involved over their heads and do participate too much, however not one kid not one team never ever???. Again that is sad and again no outside activties. Let them be children for they will be children only once. I guess this story gets to me because I relate it back to my childhood and my childrens childhood memories... Peace. Catherine