Originally Posted by mom2twins2

Why the heck didn't you tell us all the 'background' before you asked what we thought you should do???

I don't know if I'd give the cat back now or not. If it's kept up in a bathroom all the time, it causes allergies to the sister in law and her child, plus they've had and given away 9 dogs over 3 years... well, that might change some of our opinions!!