I had a severely disabled child for three and a half years. She passed away on New Years Eve.
Until you have had to take care of a disabled child 24 hours a day on little to no sleep don't pass judgment.
Get a job opposite hours? And get fired when you have to take days off for the numerous Dr appts. Or when the child has to be admitted to the hospital for a week here and there. Or for the therapy appts. Or for the school appts.
Having a disabled child is a full time job.

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