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Originally Posted by dannic  " I know several parents in support groups that I'm the member of that have had to legally seperate, and in some cases divorce to get the assitance that they need. " That is really sad... Instead of fighting to change the system, they are playing it...
In my opinion that makes them no better then the ones who lie and cheat to get on welfare... |
"Changing the system" takes time and money and resolve because the system doesn't like change doesn't want change and chews up and spits up anyone who dares to try to change the status quo.
A woman who is already stretched for time and money and other resources would have to have the motivation of Joan of Arc and could expect to be burned at the stake also.
Get real Dannic none of us is perfect but for some reason you have this burning desire to judge people and to look for holes in their story and dig up former posts to prove your point.
If I were you I would try to concentrate on why I have this burning desire to make others look bad.
For God's sake have some compassion and if you can't dredge up an iota of that try using the common sense God gave a rock and look at your comments with an objective eye and try to figure out how to make yourself happier with your own life instead of by putting others down.
Bullies and people with inferiority complexes do that.
I don't understand how any of you can criticize this woman. Have you cared for a special needs child? Even as a job or a volunteer or a respite provider?
This is the day that officially some of you sicken me.