You know Marilynk honestly you have come to the boards lately with your personal problems and while me and you never really get along I offered you some truly heartfelt words and I truly truly mean't every word, and then you wrote you have found peace, but yet Marilyn here you are still with me , will not leave me alone and still instult me and comment about my grammar once again some things honestly never change, your so right, you do not have to read my posts, but you choose to, and you choose to comment, whatever, your choice. No where in any of these posts did you once say Catherine I am sorry to hear about your son Tommy that would have been nice and before you tell me I am playing the part and seeking sympathy please do not go there. Catherine