Marilyn for me it is personal , the subject John Travolta I do not know him from a hole in the wall, however , the post I can relate to because we are talking about a sick child I have a sick child so for me it is personal why do you always have to tell me to grow up , does that statement not sound silly to you to even speak, especially after I just wrote all I have gone through with all my sons Medical conditions and you want me to grow up. I do not know Marilyn perhaps you are still bitter from your personal problems if not then I am sorry , however your right we are strangers we only know each other here on the boards and as it stands now its not fair this has gone on way too long and way off topic . If I ramble on I am sorry , sorry for speaking too long, but not sorry for speaking about something that is dear to my heart being a parent and and more important being a parent to a sick child and offering the best medical treatment I could and always will. Peace. Catherine