She's NOT your three year old, she's her's. You need to accept that this woman IS her Mommy, not you. You were just the caretaker. The judge has asked you to leave these people alone. Do so. It's better for the child for you to step aside. It's not sick for this woman to try and put HER family back together but it is sick and wrong for you to meddle and try to keep what doesn't belong to you. You were paid by the state to care for this child while her mother worked to meet the conditions set by the court to reclaim her. She's done that and your job is over.

Faith can't be expected to bond with her biological mother when you won't let her go. Stop calling her, stop shaking, stop crying. This isn't your decision to make. You are ruining your chances of ever being reunited with Faith by making her real mother hate you. Even if this woman decides to give up custody, it won't be given to you if the mother hates you and fights it.

You knew the terms when you agreed to care for Faith. I'm sorry it didn't work out the way you hoped but it's unfair of you to try and keep them from becoming a family because you miss Faith. Your only chance of ever having Faith is if the mother lets you have her so causing trouble is a mistake. You're blowing it. Let Faith go and you may get her back. Fight to take this woman's baby and you'll lose her forever.

You need counseling badly. Get some and think about having your own baby because Faith belongs to someone else. The court has TOLD you that. Listen to the judge and step aside and things may still work out for you. Don't and you may never see Faith again.

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