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Originally Posted by opaldancing 
You knew the terms when you agreed to care for Faith. I'm sorry it didn't work out the way you hoped but it's unfair of you to try and keep them from becoming a family because you miss Faith. Your only chance of ever having Faith is if the mother lets you have her so causing trouble is a mistake. You're blowing it. Let Faith go and you may get her back. Fight to take this woman's baby and you'll lose her forever.
You need counseling badly. Get some and think about having your own baby because Faith belongs to someone else. The court has TOLD you that. Listen to the judge and step aside and things may still work out for you. Don't and you may never see Faith again.
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shut up! Constructive criticism is one thing, but dammit!
None of us know what she was told when she was given Faith to begin with. And courts do really odd things sometimes. Sometimes the court's decision don't always make sense.
And to bring up "having your own baby"? Bad taste and completely hateful and nasty. You make it sound like Faith is some object that can be swapped, traded or bought at the local big-box store.
You sometimes have some pretty insightful and helpful posts. You are usually always very blunt; and while I can appreciate bluntness, you need to step off on this one and think with a little more compassion and empathy. Otherwise, you just come across as a world class b*tch.