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Originally Posted by opaldancing  Wheras the new kinder, gentler you comes across as a hypocrite. Momrajum TOLD us what the agreement was or did you miss that part? You seem to miss a lot and attack when you have no clue what's going on. Why don't YOU shut up and read instead?
And yes, Momrajum should have her own baby instead of trying to steal someone else's. If she's barren, then she can adopt. Or she can hope that the mother give Faith back to her but she's closing that window tighter every day. There was that possibility but the mother isn't going to like her now. It'll take some work to undo that damage.
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It's one thing to be blunt and too the point. It's another to be mean and hateful.
It's one thing to offer some advice--advice that might not be popular. But to kick someone who's already down? That's just twisted
I, too would recommend some counseling for the OP. She has experienced a huge loss and is bound to experience significant issues. I would recommend following the court's recommendation to the LETTER. If the bio-mom is worthy of being called "mom" then she will understand the OPs position and try to work something out for the benefit of the child.
I disagree that the OP should just discontinue all contact w/the child. The child is 3! She doesn't understand, and may end of feeling abandoned by the OP. And if the bio mom is worthless as a parent, then the poor kid will really have nothing or no one to turn to!
I wonder if you just like posting not so nice, or if you are clueless to the abrasiveness, or what. I'm a big girl. You don't bother me! LOL I've taken much worse on other boards---I've also dished out much worse
. So, hit me w/ your best shot...whoever you are!