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Originally Posted by opaldancing  You're not kidding - you have made some of the nastiest posts on this board. Portraying yourself now as a poor victim of domestic abuse doesn't excuse or change that so the holier than thou attitude isn't going to fly here.
I noticed you didn't bother with any of my points and that's because you NEVER EVEN READ the other posts! If you had, you would know that the OP was never expected to discontinue all contact with the child. She was supposed to be gradually distancing herself from the child over the past few weeks while Faith grew accustomed to her new home. Instead, she still calls her repeatedly and now wants to call the judge for advice on getting Faith back. I'm not going to copy and paste for you so just send your vitual hugs to her and help her steal that woman's daughter if that makes you feel better about yourself.
Funny, I would have thought someone with the accused child abuse history you claim to have would have more sympathy for a parent who made a mistake and is trying to set things right. Or have you cast yourself as Mother of the Year now too? |
Yep, I was a nasty person, and made some nasty posts. You got me there! Oh wait....I admitted that already!
I don't think I'm Mother of the Year--but like most mothers I try to do the best I can.
And let's clear one thing up: A neighbors call to 911 is not necessarily an accusation of child abuse. Keep in mind the neighbors were aware that my estranged husband was abusive and had been arrested for domestic assault. I choose to give my neighbors the benefit of the doubt and think that they were acting out of concern for me and the children.
Again, none of us were privy to what the court said initially, or any time thereafter. Nevertheless, Melissa WAS this child's parent for 3 years. It's only natural to be distraught and upset at the current situation. There really is no need to be nasty and mean. Melissa's concern is the child, because if the mother lost or voluntarily gave up custody once there had to be a reason! Any caring adult would be concerned that the bio-mother hasn't gotten her act together. And your whole "have your own child, quit trying to steal someone else's" is just hateful beyond words.