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Old 09-28-2009, 09:14 AM
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I am just amazed that the courts allowed the bio-mom 3 years to straighten her act out. From the work I have did before I had to move to FL with the system, there is a Federal Law on returning children home and I believe its 18 months, that helps to prevent the problems Faith is now experiencing of utter confusion on who is safe and who is her "Mommy".

Melissa I know how heartbreaking it is been there done that, got through it with a support group and went on to give my heart and soul to a system that isn't always right and try to help make it a better system for kids and families both biological and foster in the future, hated to drop out of the project but I am better for it and the changes they made in the year I was on it are well worth it.

I know in time Melissa you will heal and you never know Faith may come back to you, there is a high rate of children re-entering foster care especially after having been in 3 years. Know this much you raised that little girl through the most important beginning years of her life and she will be a much better person because of you and no-one else. I just know when she reaches the age of 18 she will hunt you down.
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