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Old 10-03-2009, 04:59 AM
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Originally Posted by annadrose View Post
Phone Sex Operator

If anyone has done this or does this or knows of a legitimate way for me to get started with this please email me annadrose@yahoo.com if you don't feel comfortable posting it. LOL I wouldn't blame you.
This is your decision to make but you are making a HUGE mistake! This is a label that will follow you THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. I'd think about that. You might think "So what?" now but you don't know where you'll be in twenty years. Being a phone sex operator will mark you and is that something you'd want the entire world to know? You think it's completely confidential and nobody can find out? Think again. A cursory background check won't find it but an in-depth one can. I doubt you'll ever be asked to marry royalty or to be a CIA operative or become world famous or to be anything where they'll check out your every past move so ruling out those kind of things might not bother you but there are so many little things you'll be ruling out too.

What we do now sometimes changes what we would have been later. This is a label that you'll wish you didn't have when you get older. I know you want a job but don't take one that can negatively mark you forever. I'm not getting into a debate on 'decent' jobs versus jobs that make people look down on you - I'm just saying they exist and right or wrong, there it is. I'm just trying to help you avoid doing something that you'll probably wish you hadn't later. Being a phone sex operator is a label that will follow you forever and I think it's a mistake to limit your future opportunities.